Itissaidthatwritingisbetterthancalling.I'mafraidthatIcan'tagreetoit.Everycoinhastwosides.Howcomewemakesuchanabsoluteconclusion?
Likedifferentpeoplehavedifferentpersonalities,differentpeoplehavedifferentreactionstowritingandcalling.
Foronething,someonewhoisn'tgoodattalkingpreferswriting.Isteadofbadcalling,thereisnodoubtthatwritingismuchbetter.Bythecontrast,someonewhohasagiftforspeechmustdobetterincallingthanwriting.
Fortheotherthing,sometimesitspendsonpeople'stendencies.Somepeoplelikewriting,becausetheymaintainthatwhenreadingthewordswithencouragementandcare,they'llfeelwarmandsmileasiftheoneistalkingtothemfacetoface.Thenthepeoplewhochoosecallinghavetheiropions.Theyholdsthatonlytheyhearoneperson'svoice,they'llfeelthepersonwhoistalkingwiththemisrealandofcoursethewordsareauthentic.
AsfarasIamconcerned,nomatterwritingorcalling,theycanbeusefulifthey'resincre,specificandspontaneous.