Tablemanners
Theinvitationpromisedeachotheriftemporaryhavesomethingtobelateorevencanceltheappointment,mustinformtheotherparty.Whensomeofthelaterisacceptable,butmorethan15minutestotheothersidewillnotseriouslydatingabadimpression.Inordertoselecttheirownwhentheyeatfoodalloverthemenutosee,ifthereisnoidea,canyourecommendarestaurantwaitersignaturedishesforyou,buttogiveclear,ifwanttoeatseafood,donoteatredmeat,remembereverythingundecided,andonlysaid"but(easily")"willonlyaddtothegueststhesametrouble.Eatalotofattentiontodetails,butinfactmostofthedailyritual,aslongasyoukeepcalm,notbigmove,nosoundorhinderotherpeople'swordsisqualifiedmeal.
餐桌礼仪
答应对方的邀请后如果临时有事要迟到甚至取消约会,必须事先通知对方.赴会时稍迟是可以接受的,但若超过15分钟便会给对方不重视约会的坏印象.在点菜时自己应选定想吃的食物,如果看遍菜牌也没有头绪的话,可请侍应为你推荐餐厅的招牌菜,但要给明确的表示,如想吃海鲜、不吃红肉等,切记事事拿不定主意,只懂说“是但(随便也罢)”的人只会为同台客人添加麻烦.用餐要注意的细节甚多,但其实大部分也是日常的礼仪,只要保持冷静,不做大动作,不出声响或阻碍别人用餐的话已算合格.