Ionlyhaveonequestiontoaskwhoeverasksmeaboutcollegestudentshavingrelationships.Whatwouldyoudowhenyouareinlove?Somemaysayitdistractsyoufromstudying.Youarenotmatureenoughtotakealltheresponsibilities.It'susuallynotendedupthewayyouanticipateittobe.Thatkindofloveisnotdependable.However,Idon'tseeanylogicsinthesestatements.AndIdon'tseeanyofthosepeoplequalifiedforpredictingotherpeople'slivesorthefuture.Istheschoolcareerallaboutstudying?Arealltheadultsabletotakeresponsibilitiesallthetime?Whocansayalltherelationshipsweseeinthesocietyhaveanexpectedoutcomeeventually?
Attendingschoolisnotallaboutstudying,butit'struethatpartofthemissionsistostudy.Muchmorethanthat,astudentissupposedtobuildapersonality,todevelopvarioussocialskills,andtolearntobeanadult.Affectionisnatural.Youdon'tgoforit,youareagainsthumannature.Manyoftheteacherseventhreatstudentsthattheyaregoingtotelltheirparents.Someofthebetterones,notusualthough,wouldsaysomethinglikeitwillaffectyouracademicperformanceandyoudon'twanttogothroughthisbecausenoneoftherelationshipsasIcanseeendupinagoodway.Howwouldstudentsunderstandwhenyouexplainthingslikethis?Youarescaringthemout.Iwonderhowmanyoftheteachersgetmarriedwiththeirfirstloves.Iftheyarethatgood,whydidtheyhavesomanydatesalreadyintheirlives?Whenyouareinlove,itmaybeforeveroritmaybenot.Butitworthatry.Andthat'showadultsdealwithlove.It'sstillfineifitdoesn'tlastforever.Youleanthingsmostlyfromyourfailures.Itgetspeoplestronger.Andthatisoneofthethingsastudentshouldbebuildupwith.Letthemseewiththeireyesandletthemjudgewiththeirhearts.
Ifyouhappentofallinlovewithsomeone,you'dhavetoprotectyourlove.You'dhavedowhateveryoufeelliketoprotectit.Becauselove,wondering,andfeelingswillnevereverbeaspureandexcitingasyouwouldhaveinthefuture.